Our Approach to Mediation
Our team of experts are highly experienced in family mediation. We regularly advise clients on how mediation can be used as an effective way of resolving family law issues. Sarah Jelly, Hazel Manktelow and Mark Harrop are the teams qualified mediators.
In this short video, we explain some of the benefits:
- We will skillfully guide you in your discussions.
- We will give you guidance as to whether the terms you want to agree to will be approved by the court.
- We will provide a safe and structured forum for discussion.
- We will help you to find the solutions.
- We will facilitate and control the production and review of paperwork and ensure ideas and proposals are reality checked.
- Where appropriate we will invite you to involve your children in the process, enabling their voices to be heard.
- We will ensure that decisions are balanced and safe.
What are the benefits of Mediation?
- It can be conducted at a pace that suits you and your partner; courts can be slow and dates inconvenient;
- It should be considerably less expensive than using the court;
- It helps reduce the potential for distress that court proceedings would create;
- It allows you and your partner to set the agenda and discuss what is important to you;
- It provides an opportunity to speak face to face at a time when emotions are running high and when the next time you meet might otherwise be in a court room;
- It is a process that encourages open and honest communication and co-operation;
- It provides a forum to allow you to create solutions tailored to your needs;
- It is non-adversarial; this is in contrast to the court process;
- You can involve the children if deemed appropriate to do so; it can be very powerful to give children a voice in a process they often feel they have no control over;
- It will enable you to draw on the mediators experience, skills and understanding to find a solution that works for you and your partner.
If you are consulting us and wish to be referred to a mediator we will direct you to someone who will be able to assist you and your spouse/partner. If you are consulting us after you have seen a mediator we will look at the paperwork and advise you on its implications as well as providing a third party view and ‘reality check’ on its terms and implications. We can also assist with incorporating its terms into an order for the court’s approval and implementation.